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The path after diagnosis

Don’t walk it alone!

Video courses for parents raising autistic or ADHD children. Support with processing the diagnosis, acceptance, starting over after divorce, and finding balance in sibling relationships.

The path after diagnosis

Don’t walk it alone!

Video courses for parents raising autistic or ADHD children. Support with processing the diagnosis, acceptance, starting over after divorce, and finding balance in sibling relationships.

“When the diagnosis was spoken, time stood still. Then, slowly, it started again — just differently.”

Have you recently received a diagnosis that your child is autistic, has ADHD, or is different in some other way?

Are you tired and exhausted?

Do you sometimes feel like there’s no way out, or that you don’t know who to turn to?

I know what you’re feeling. I’ve been through this, too.
The only difference is that I had no one to turn to.

I had to walk this rough road through painful, exhausting work — completely alone.

That is why I decided to help you through my videos.
So that you don’t have to be alone during these difficult days.

Through my videos, I want to show you how it is possible to move forward from a situation that feels hopeless, and still live a balanced, full life — no matter what kind of child you have been entrusted with, and no matter how great the task placed upon you by fate.

Join me in my The path after diagnosis – don’t walk it alone courses.

My courses are for you if:

  • you have just received a diagnosis that your child is autistic, has ADHD, or is difficult in some way

  • you are raising a non-typical child

  • because of this, you find yourself in a non-ordinary life situation and can’t see a way out

  • you feel that life has placed too great a task on you, and you can’t solve it alone

  • you feel life has been unfair to you by giving you such a heavy burden

  • you feel alone with the weight you are carrying on your journey

  • you feel that life is over for you with such a difficult child

  • you feel you don’t know how to get divorced with an autistic child

  • you feel that starting a new life with autistic children is impossible — or you don’t know how to do it

The path after diagnosis

– don’t walk it alone courses

Help, my child is autistic!

From diagnosis to the stages of grief

When the diagnosis arrives, the story is not only about your child — it is about you, too.

4 × 10 minutes | Unlimited access

+ Workbook

Acceptance and living in healthy balance with non-typical children

From acceptance to building a healthy new life

Acceptance is not giving up — it is redesigning.

2 × 10 minutes | Unlimited access

+ Workbook

Divorce and starting over with non-typical children

Divorce is always difficult — but even more so when you have a child with special needs

The decision brings even more questions, guilt, and fear.

2 × 10 minutes | Unlimited access

+ Workbook

Help, my sibling is autistic!

How to support a neurotypical child when their sibling is autistic

This course is about the “invisible heroes” — the siblings.

2 × 10 minutes | Unlimited access

+ Workbook

Help, my child is autistic!

Course 1 – From diagnosis to the stages of grief

4 sessions of approximately 10 minutes

This course offers a comprehensive set of tools if you have recently received a diagnosis that your child is autistic, has ADHD, or is “different” in some way.
I help you process what has happened to you as soon as possible — because you are the engine of the family, and you are needed.

In this course, I help you work through the difficulties that follow a diagnosis:

  • facing reality

  • the stages of grief

  • not getting stuck in self-pity

  • how to create a full, meaningful new life

The course provides practical guidance to ease the emotional, mental, and physical challenges connected to your new life situation.

The course consists of 1 × 40 minutes of content and is available for unlimited replay.
After purchase, you will receive an automatic email with the playback link, allowing you to go through the course material and practical methods at your own pace.

11900 Ft

Acceptance and living in healthy balance with non-typical children

Course 2 – From acceptance to building a healthy new life

2 sessions of approximately 10 minutes

This course offers a comprehensive set of tools if you have recently received a diagnosis that your child is autistic, has ADHD, or is “different” in some way.
I help you process what has happened to you as soon as possible — because you are the engine of the family, and you are needed.

This course builds on Course 1, where we reached acceptance.
Here, we explore in more depth what acceptance really means, how to arrive there, and how to build a new, emotionally healthy life in this changed situation.

In this course, I help you:

  • accept the new situation without falling into a victim role

  • find balance in your new life — alongside your child, the increased demands, and the creation of new routines — while preserving your own physical and emotional well-being

Healthy balance is not a luxury — it is the foundation that allows you to be present with love in the long term.

The course provides practical guidance to ease the emotional, mental, and physical challenges connected to your new life situation.

The course consists of 1 × 20 minutes of content and is available for unlimited replay.
After purchase, you will receive an automatic email with the playback link, allowing you to work through the course material and practical methods at your own pace.

6900 Ft

Divorce and starting over with non-typical children

Course 3 – Divorce is always difficult — but even more so with a child with special needs

2 sessions of approximately 10 minutes

This course offers a comprehensive set of tools if you are considering divorce, are currently going through a divorce, or are already divorced while raising non-typical children.
Unfortunately, around 50% of couples divorce in Western societies. This is a difficult decision for everyone, but it carries even greater responsibility when non-typically developing children are involved.

I help you process the divorce as soon as possible — because you are the engine of the family, and you are needed.
This course does not strictly build on the first two courses, but it is beneficial if you are familiar with them.

In this course, I help you see clearly how to stay on your feet in such a situation.
I provide practical, step-by-step guidance.

You will learn:

  • how to prepare for divorce

  • how to communicate divorce to non-typical children

  • how to make the situation easier for all of you

  • how to start a new life with non-typical children

The course offers practical advice to ease the emotional, mental, and physical challenges connected to your new life situation.

The course consists of 1 × 20 minutes of content and is available for unlimited replay.
After purchase, you will receive an automatic email with the playback link, allowing you to work through the material and practical methods at your own pace.

6900 Ft

Help, my sibling is autistic!

Course 4 – How to support a neurotypical child when their sibling is autistic

How to handle sibling conflicts**

2 sessions of approximately 10 minutes

This course offers a comprehensive set of tools if you are raising both an autistic/ADHD child and a neurotypical child.
I help you establish balance as soon as possible between children with different developmental paths and needs. This is not only in your children’s best interest, but in yours — and the entire family’s — as well.
This course does not necessarily build on the first three courses, but it is helpful if you are familiar with the material from the first two.

In this course, the focus is on the sibling.
Often, when one child requires more attention, our focus naturally shifts toward them, and the non-autistic sibling may unintentionally fade into the background. It is important to give special attention to the neurotypical sibling and to understand how they might be experiencing this situation.
How we communicate with them — and how we explain why their sibling is different — truly matters.

You will receive concrete guidance on:

  • how to give individual attention to the non-autistic child

  • how to communicate what makes their sibling different

  • how to support the neurotypical sibling in a healthy, balanced way

The course provides practical advice to ease the emotional, mental, and physical challenges connected to your current life situation.

The course consists of 1 × 20 minutes of content and is available for unlimited replay.
After purchase, you will receive an automatic email with the playback link, allowing you to work through the material and practical methods at your own pace.

6900 Ft

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KATALIN GÁSPÁR 
HARMONET

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Moni Lisa Tibenszky
Founder of the Responsible Parents’ School, journalist

“I stumbled upon Dóra’s blog by chance, and from that moment on I didn’t miss a single day. Like someone hooked on a TV series, I waited for the evening to find out what had happened to them that day.
I was captivated not only by what she had to say, but by an entirely new world opening up before me — a world I had known nothing about until then. I had no idea what a family raising an autistic child has to face. What drew me in just as strongly was the unfiltered honesty of the writing, the courage of self-disclosure, Dóra’s unshakable optimism, her wonderful sense of humor, and her original perspective.

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Editor-in-Chief, Mindennapi Pszichológia

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